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Food, Race, and the Beloved Community

January 18, 2016 by biz.w.harris@gmail.com Leave a Comment

Today we remember the life and legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr., but also it’s an opportunity to honor the incredible sacrifice so many people of color and their allies made to bring us closer to equal justice under the law.

     A few years ago I toured the King Center in Atlanta with a group of high school students. I’d never been there, and to be honest, it affected me so strongly that I really had no business being a chaperone. As a southerner, I live and wrestle with our region’s history every day. With my family’s story, with our current realities and structural inequity that we feel as residual effects of the days of slavery and segregation. Everyone I know does, no matter their race or ethnicity or age, although we may not always realize it.
     This holiday often ends up as a time for people to look around and say, “Hey, King was a great guy. Too bad what happened to him, but he said we should respect and love each other.” Instead, I would urge us to remember the awful violence that SNCC members faced by choosing to sit-in at lunch counters around the south. Inspired by four North Carolina A&T students in Greensboro on February 2nd, 1960, other young people took beatings, faced embarrassment, were screamed at, and jailed for wanting to eat at a meal at a lunch counter – a meal, no doubt, that was likely on the menu of every lunch counter no matter the ownership or clientele.

Our food, an aspect of our culture that all southerners point to when defining our region, also served as a dividing line for much of our history. For too long, racism kept white southerners from having black southerners share their meals at the table, even though they were almost certainly cooking and serving them.
This is the fraught legacy of southern food.
Our food is nourishing, it holds memories, it brings people together, it reminds us of home and family, yet its legacy, like everything else in the south, is tainted with the stains of oppression and segregation. I think the young people who sat at the counter that day in Greensboro knew the power of food, the power of sharing a meal with others, and how our identities are shaped by what and how we eat. They knew that food can bring us together even while other things tear us apart. I take heart knowing that eating together at the table is one of the most integral traditions in our region, but know that in order to reach King’s idea of the Beloved Community, our food must be shared and eaten together across our lines of difference. I hope that Mess of Greens gives me a chance to share my attempts as a white woman to confront our shared history and be honest about it, while bringing people together to eat and look to the future.

We can’t look ahead before we look back, though. It isn’t pretty, y’all, but if we’re honest – if we take a hard, real look at where we’ve been and what role we’ve played and are playing in the south’s own mess – we can make change.

Happy Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.

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